At home with
Margie Riddiford
Writer, stylist and editor of VEIL.
Writer, stylist and editor of VEIL.
We built our last home with John Irving and Rufus Knight, and it had this kind of beautiful, sleek Scandi-Japanese minimalism that felt really calm and sharp.
But when we had our kids, I think we realised that what we wanted from our home had changed. Our sensibility evolved from that kind of polished perfectionism to something a little more eclectic and unexpected. So when we were looking for our next house, it really was for a place where we could add layers - colours and textural touches - to make it feel like a reflection of our busy family life.
I think that really has been the biggest shift from our last home to this one. Most of what my husband and I do with our current place comes from instinct. It’s a much more, ‘let’s try it and see’ approach, and I do think that we just know when a piece of furniture or art or a particular colour will work in the space. That said, we are currently undergoing a major landscaping overhaul with Jared Lockhart which has been very planned out and intentional. It will make a huge difference to the way we can enjoy our home.
I think it’s a balance. Practically, yes we need to consider things like toy storage (if anyone has a genius solution for this, by the way, please let me know haha), art corners, dress-up boxes and all the various ephemera that ends up scattered across every floor in every room. And the solutions to those things need to be easy and look good.
On the other hand, Jol and I also want to enjoy and love our space so if we see an artwork or a piece of furniture that we know will be perfect, it won’t necessarily deter us if it’s not the MOST practical for kids. Two of our biggest artworks hang low enough for smudgy little hands but the kids know now not to touch them so it hasn’t really been an issue.
The tones in our living space err on the cooler side. Greens, blues and brushed aluminium accents. The Sandringham Aquamarine rug was the most ideal colour for lifting our dining table nook. We have quite a heavy, black round dining table and so the light blue of the rug lends the whole area a soft, modern lightless.
It also speaks to the tones of the Claudia Kogachi piece that hangs over it. Similarly, the Cassia and Arcadia cushions add some depth to that cool, steely palette, without feeling overbearing. They work really beautifully with the neutral tone of our sofa, and they’re also a forgiving colour for those inevitable marks left by busy children.
A blackened timber sculpture that my husband bought me for my birthday from Public Record.
The red Tripp Trapp high chair that sits in the corner of our dining space that both girls have used (and Dree continues to use) - I don’t think I’ll ever be able to get rid of that.
Most of the photos we have on our wall. The vases that we have been given to mark special occasions over the years that we fill with fresh flowers every week.
I think the idea of living in an aesthetic way has become so prevalent that people (myself included) are kind of pushing back. I remember recently seeing images of Greydon Carter’s New York home from the 90s and feeling like that was what I wanted my home to feel like. Walls covered in photos and art, shelves filled with strange objets and dog-eared books. There is an authenticity to it that leaves perfection behind.
And so for me, beyond thinking about how I want my home to look, it’s figuring out what I want it to feel like. What is that? Will I love it as much when it’s messy (because sometimes it will be) as I do when it’s tidy? How do I want my kids to feel when they come home from school? What memories do I want them to have from their childhood home? The pen marks on the floor are less important to me than the experience my kids were having when they made them.